Nengi has told Ozo he is not the type of man she would want to be in a relationship with because he is too civil for her liking.
According to her, Ozo would not support her in a feud or bust-up with someone, he would be there to preach peace and prevent her from defending herself, something she detests about her lover.
Though she likes civil people like him, she prefers her lover to join her in a brawl because that is how she runs her relationship. It’s obvious Nengi wants the Kiddwaya and Neo type of man in Ozo